Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com.
“Adjusting” was the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for LifeTapestryCreations.com.
Dear Ones,
You likely feel elated and defeated, neither of which accurately portrays your current being.
The minute-by-minute shift within is forcing you into your new world. At the same time, you are exiting a life you are comfortable with, so neither life focus feels completely safe.
The difference is you now feel less incompetent and inferior to others, as if you have put on your “big girl or boy pants” and are unwilling to acquiesce to the needs or interests of others unless your interests are similar. Being nice or good is no longer that important to you. Saying or doing what is expected is in your past.
As you mature, you will discover unforeseen pieces and parts of yourself. You are becoming a strong, independent being without ties to who you should be or what you should do. If you attempt to play a role that no longer suits your new being, you will discover that others do not necessarily wish to be around you. It is almost as if your true self is a beckoning agent, and your pretend self is a barrier others do not want to cross.
If you allow yourself to follow your inner being instead of your former shoulds, you will be an independent, wise being radiating health and energy.
New methods of communication that do not require words but are sensed by others as honest and authentic are emerging.
Even though some at the forefront have experienced this method of communication for years, most people reading this material will discover that others can now read you as you have read them. It will be more difficult for you to vocalize or act falsely because others will know you are not being true to yourself. And instead of providing accolades for your willingness to fulfill their needs in dishonesty with yourself and them, they will find your dishonesty unacceptable.
You have transitioned beyond who you thought you were and how you functioned to a new honesty of thought, word, and deed.
That honesty will radiate from your being and draw others to you. However, because that magnetic action will be unfocused initially, you will discover others wishing to be with you even though you might not be interested in them.
Within a few days, you will attract those more in line with whom you wish to interact.
Your new self-honesty will progress from attracting many others to finally attracting those with similar interests or those who can learn from you or teach you. It will become a sophistication of word and action that you have likely never experienced. Not because you are a slow learner, but because the recent energies are pushing you into your new being faster than we of the Universes thought possible. The result of that pushing is a rapidly maturing new being and world.
Perhaps it feels as if your world is falling apart. In reality, it is falling together. No longer will you be responsible for others who do not wish to take responsibility for themselves. No longer will you be willing to while away days, months, and years doing the bidding of others. And no longer will you feel as if you are on the outside looking in.
You are rapidly becoming the new being you wished to create after eons of planning and experiencing as many emotions, disappointments, fears, and interactions as possible.
You have been in elementary school for eons, with a recent promotion to high school. You will graduate into a new adulthood within the next few days. You do not have to fight, plan, or worry. Your preparations are over. You are merely floating into your new life, easily and effortlessly. And if doing so feels arduous, it is because you continue to cling to social shoulds or have tos.
Who you used to be is no more. Who you have become is peeking out today, and will become a complete young adult within two weeks, attracting many who wish to be like you, only to fall away as you become more independent and attract those who share your interests. So be it. Amen.
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