Growing out of the fertilizer…

My dear friends, we love you so very much,

There are many times in life when you find yourselves in situations that you didn’t realize you were attracting. These aren’t your ideal situations. You know it because you don’t like them. However, even in these spaces, you can find value because they are the most wonderful motivators for creating better.

We are not suggesting you try to like them, justify them, or even dig around too deeply to figure out why you created them. Instead, take a moment and ask yourself, “What do I want to see instead?”  How can I start to shift my feelings to feel like I’m already there?  We know this is a tall order when you’re in what you like to call “a mess,” but if you can, think of it as a little challenge.

“I know I don’t care for my situation.” That’s a given! You know that very clearly.
“I’d much prefer a different situation.” Be honest with yourself. What would you rather experience? If you are sick, most likely, you’d rather be well. If you are experiencing lack, you’d rather be abundant. If you are watching a dear one suffer, you’d rather them be well, and more deeply, you’d love to be in a position to truly assist.  If someone is treating you unkindly, you’d rather be among kind people and not care about the unkindnesses.

No matter how undesirable a situation is, if you take the time, you can connect with what you desire. Allow yourself to do so. Many of you won’t do this because it feels impossible, too far off, or as if it costs too much. Allow yourselves to initiate the process of creation, dear ones!  Know you deserve what you desire. Take a moment to figure that out and avoid negating it.

Next ask yourself, “How would I feel if I were in that situation?” Take a moment to dream, imagine, and, most importantly, feel. If you can’t get there, ask a different question. “What would it feel like to feel just a little better now? What would it feel like to feel loved through this? What would it feel like to have some help or care or hope?”  Reach for what you can until you feel a slight improvement in your feelings. Keep this up as often as you can. You will gain momentum even with these smaller steps.

Sometimes, it is too much of a mental stretch to imagine having what you want. Humans have disappointed you. You haven’t been taught the laws of the universe. You are still learning. You don’t all yet know how deeply loved and worthy you are. You can still get where you want to be. Reach for what comforts and soothes, and little by little, things will shift.

Dear ones, if you find yourself in undesirable circumstances, you haven’t done anything wrong. They are launching pads for better. Never are you more sure that you want to be elsewhere!  Never is your energy more focused and clear on “getting out” of that situation.  You can use these situations to improve life dramatically. This is why people often say that their “dark nights of the soul” were turning points. It is in these deeper spaces that you find crystal clarity about wanting better, and as you inch, your feelings towards a better life, things start to change.

The good news is that you do not need painful situations to grow. You can admit your desires to yourself as they arise, and allow the good feelings you have while thinking about them make you positively magnetic. You can be living a wonderful life and appreciating it, or even a tough life and appreciating what you can, and that appreciation will attract more.

You don’t require pain to grow, but painful circumstances are an indicator that along the way, there have been lots of little points at which you didn’t listen to your spirit or focused in ways that cut off the life, little by little. If you sit on your foot, eventually it will fall asleep but you will notice many smaller feelings of discomfort before that happens to help you readsjut. LIkewise your spirit offers you lots of little feelings along the way to help you get in a better space.

The good news,is that no matter how long it took to attract a mess, it takes very little focus on love to start improving your life. Love is such a strong vibration and begins to shift things quickly.  Even sitting with us, breathing, and receiving is a step towards love, and truly, dear ones, we want to help you. If we can work with your vibration even a few minutes a day and help you feel even a tiny fraction of our immense love for you, this will assist you in turning life around when it is not so desirable.

We love you. We want to help you thrive in joy, but when you are not in joy, we will hold the vibration of your visions for you. We will help you attune your energy to them once again. We love you and want the best for you. When you feel you have failed, we see only growth and expansion. You are all learning, reaching for better, and coming to understand that you truly deserve a kinder and easier path. Most of you know this intellectually. Now, we are guiding you to reach for better feelings. We have so much more we can say about this, but for now, we will leave you with a single thought:

From the “fertilizer moments” of your life, great good can grow.

God Bless You! We love you so very much.
— The Angels